It sounds like you got into the R before you were emotionally available; not really fair to him. Was he abused? No - you didn't MAKE him do these things for you, did you? You wanted someone to take care of you, which he did, without giving anything in return, because you didn't have anything to give. You didn't want to be intimate - just cared for.
You are not ready to be in a R. Neither am I. You have to take care of YOURSELF, all on your own, be complete, before you can be a partner to another, choose to be with someone else. Not need them, or them needing you.
Heal yourself. I can see why he's pissed, but you teach people how you want to be treated - he shouldn't be surprised at your treatment of him. Sounds like he learned a lesson, and he did, too (maybe). Move on. He's not going to go back to being nice-nice, and you need to take care of yourself.
