I think you planted the seed that it is up to her. I don't really think you should send an email saying such things. I think you're doing well being calm and in control. I think that's what she wanted all along.
I think if the opportunity comes up, you may want to suggest that she and you give it one last shot. Just to be sure for you both. Then bring up the weekends away.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
