On the dim/dark just remember don't be cold you can have a nice conv. w/her just don't start it and be the one to end it. If all your doing is saying ok, uh huh, ect. it can come across as being unhappy or cold and distant, you HAVE to show the PMA.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
