I did send my H a birthday card. Put a little note in it - very non-confrontational just saying that I cared about him and wished he would go see a dr. (I've heard from several people that he looks terrible). Counsellor we saw actually through he was about 20 years older than me!! (He's 3 years younger).
Today I got a polite e-mail from him thanking me for card and thoughts. Guess it's better than a kick in the teeth.
He never did reply to my e-mail from last week asking if he was going to file.
Jerri Me 50 WAH 47 M 23 years D 22 S 21 S 30 (previous marriage) B 02/09 marriage is over S 02/09 NC
