Originally Posted By: Sara

Maybe you should become a virgin again, and insist on monogamy before you will have sex with him. I wonder if he would go for it again.


I think I'd also have to insist that he is only allowed one family! I've finally gotten to a point that I should have gotten to long ago. Now it's my time to make to make the decisions. If he can't abide by them, then it is time for him to stay gone.

Originally Posted By: Sara
I don't think I looked so "smokin'hot" after bellydance class. And I do think we have to consider who walks into arch support shoe stores -- not the young, hot babes.


LOL Well, when you put it that way, yes are a "smokin hot" babe. I'm sure you are quite young compared to the usual clientele.

Originally Posted By: Sara
But what I can't get out of my mind was how he almost wouldn't accept that I wasn't Lisa. How the memories of this woman overtook him. And yet, they aren't together, so something happened in the past that separated them. Boy, if he had looked like my old boyfriend, we could have had some sick relationship started there!


Hmmmm...Is that how affairs begin? Maybe you've solved part of the mystery.




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
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