WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 8

[confusedinpa]

Hmmm.....

Not much input on WAW's who just moved out but is maintaining contact (emails/text/phone calls). It really makes it hard to go Dark/Dim.

I suspect that she will get a little mad with my most recent email.

Our car insurance bill is one that she takes care of (we split the bills between us). When she moved out, she changed the insurance so she was expecting a partial refund, so she sent me an email asking if it came in yet. Prior to her moving out, there were 2 bills which she normally takes care of but didn't pay so they went past due.

So I sent her reply email of:

"I haven't seen it yet, but will let you know when I get it.

Let me know how you want to handle the bills from March that went past due"

I'm sure that is going to tick her off. I'm not trying to push buttons, but just establishing some boundaries. I was trying to be nice/polite and buisness like with the email so it doesn't seem like I'm trying to be a jerk about it. She knows I already paid the bills.

Any thoughts?