and we all know when this happens....thay have to hold on to how much they love the OW.....right I mean how could a good mean leave his family and all of his values and beliefs unless he picked the wrong women......remember it even is in the Bible with ADAM and EVE...God it was the woman you gave me
we thought there were values and vows in place.....and the foundation of what you build your life on has been demolished so we all know the fault all as to be with the LBS and how perfect the new couple are for each other...and to get a child to believe that who has had her family torn apart....but doenst understand all that it means would certainly under if Her Dad is happy and loves the OW, if the children could only understand that than all would be fine...I am just trying to express how I think the OW and XH may be thinking and how they are tyring to appeal to the children, becuase afterall if we LOVE EACH othe and are happy......then its ok...ITS ALL JUST PART OF THE DEAL..YES IT HURTS...but knowledge is power...
