AFW - I agree with LG. I thought the same thing. You may "say" you forgave her right away, but, probably only because you wanted your life back. Is your heart truly ready to forgive someone who blew your vows, and STILL hasn't truly reconciled her feelings, and shown remorse? Give yourself time. You deserve it.
I'd say part of that is true. I was ready to forgive. The part I'm having a problem with is that she still hasn't reconciled her feelings and shown appropriate remorse. Ugh, more time--it seems like everything takes time. I miss the old days where time just flew by.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
