AFW - I agree with LG. I thought the same thing. You may "say" you forgave her right away, but, probably only because you wanted your life back. Is your heart truly ready to forgive someone who blew your vows, and STILL hasn't truly reconciled her feelings, and shown remorse? Give yourself time. You deserve it.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.