I actually told my wife earlier that I would be as co-operative as I can if it pertains to the children. I also said I understand you want me to take the bags but I do not agree with it. She went into a rant saying I was selfish and only concerned about myself, she said she 'so made the right decision about our relationship', her father thought I should have done more work in the garden late year before the bomb, basically more character assasination. I nearly buckled and said I would pick them up later but I didn't.
I did validate her in regards to the children. I did not ring them at all over the weekend which is wrong. She definately feels I am doing 'more of the same' - not caring enough about the children, and being selfish.
She said as I am currently out of work I would want to take the children to school and she should not have to suggest these things. I validated this and will address this with my children later today. She wants me to have the children to stay on Wednesday night, I know why but if it gives me quality time with my children then that will be good.
Did I handle the bag sitch correctly.
Last edited by markhaving probs; 04/27/0903:49 PM.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
