She called me asking something tactical about the kids. I just let it go to my voicemail.

Is this normal - during the first week or so since she's moved out, she has called, emailed/text me everyday. I'm trying to play it dark/dim but not be a total jerk or cold. I assume that dark/dim isn't about being cold, but rather mysterious. Right?

Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13