Hmmm. Let me try again. I’m not making excuses for him. I’m trying to find out if I in fact am what he tells me I am. I lived with him for about 8 months. He paid all the bills, cooked all the meals, cleaned the house, etc. I literally went to work and came home. I didn’t contribute any money to speak of. I’ve already told you that I was not a very nice person to him. Anyway, going to bed at night was always something I dreaded because I knew what was about to happen. Fast forward, he just couldn’t take it anymore, he said I took advantage of his kindness, he told me that I used him financially, that I was a taker, etc. As a matter of fact, if he were posting this instead of me, I think you would tell him that I was what he describes me as. But, I will say this. I have never done that to a soul. I’m not sure it’s in me to do these things he accuses me of, but I do see his point. I’m just trying to figure out if I am, in fact, the one that abused him. This is really turning point for me so I need to really hear unbiased opinions.
