Sorry to hear about your recent discoveries...I do not have much to go on but it sounds like she is up to something. Screw the snoop no snoop debate....at this point I think you should put the cards on the table. Actually I think it is time that she get a little shock treatment. An apercu of life without Lan....I think she is due for a little dose of reality....regardless of how her dad is doing. Sorry Lan, I just get a little pissed at some of these antics...