The adventure continues- part 4

[AFWAW]

No time to feel sorry for yourself. You are too busy. Drop that self talk. You are perfectly fine. Life is good. I showed some backbone this weekend. Had a great time with my daughter... etc. etc....

I know you're right, it is difficult though. I am trying, really.

I see your point about the phone call as well. Argghhhh, I'm making this more difficult than it has to be it feels like.

You still let her set the terms though. She got you to call her back and she got to come over when she wanted to come over. You would have made much more ground by refusing to let her come over. Just matter of fact. No big deal. Not mean. Not punitive. Too busy and too short notice. Already have other plans and things to do. Sorry, talk to you later. Gotta run. Call me sometime this week and we can work something out. Ta ta.

Ok, I see your point. I have to set my terms. You're right and I wanted to call her back and she probably knew it.

Stay out of her relationship with the daughter. Let them work it out themselves. They are both playing you. Not good.

Ok, I'll work on this as well. It would probably give me a lot less stress if I did so.

Thanks gucci!