I have asked my W the same thing in the past but I leave it up to her. So I would say if you trust her then just tell her to go ahead and get what she needs, if not you need to be there.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
