We seem to be living a parallel life again. The money talks are disgusting to me too. It's unbelievable to me that H is doing all that he is doing to keep me from getting some of "his" precious money.
Take care sweetie. It will be over soon for both of us I hope.
Hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.