Over the Shock - Detaching and GALing 3

[Thinker]

It's been a few days since I posted - and a new thread to boot.

If you've been following along, I feel there was a bit of a breakthrough last week in MC. My W really opened up in MC and, although in many ways what she said was "I don't see much hope" what she was really saying was "I have seen all of the positive changes, and am confused about them and don't trust them"

Also, while in MC she was saying "I don't feel any connection", her actions immediately saying that she did.

Since then, it has been light and fun. I have been spending a ton of time with our our boys and with her together as a family (when she was not working), with beautiful weather, no stress, and no R talk at all.

Then, today, what is in my mind a very big step...my W surprised me and initiated ML. It has been months without any of that, and she has not initiated since well before the bomb.

I don't want to get too optimistic and scare her away, but I am hopeful...

...and it was a great day!