What an insight. You handled it beautifully! kudos to you. And being so compassionate and generous to him for your eldest son's sake, you are setting a wonderful example for your children.

You are on the right track, keep your eyes on your goal. You H is watching you like a hawk. Look your best (men are very visual), smile a lot and don't let him see your feather ruffled.

Good luck!


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'