S4H.... that's good to hear about the weather. It can be pretty great there this time of year. They get in Sunday, and leave Thursday, so it sounds like they will have it nice. They are going to do about 3 weeks worth of stuff, including a run to Philadelphia! I think it would do me in!
As far as where I am, it's scary and yet exciting. I could mope about it, but it wouldn't help. So, I'm going to try to take this batch of lemons and make the best lemonade ever!
(((((Julia))))) Played golf today, it was a little breezy, but about 29C, not too hot! (It's all relative!) Shorts, probably got a little burned.
Hey Jeff.. its brilliant that you are so positive, you really do sound so cheerful alot of the time, although like you say, you could mope...but I hope to say good things for you on the horizon..
When is W moving out, do you know? Is she still completing on a house?
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I usually am pretty cheerful! I am sad now and then, and a bit regretful. But, on the other hand, I think I did what I could do. And it is time to move forward to whatever awaits.
The latest word on W's house is that her offer was provisionally accepted. But, she doesn't have the actual contract yet, so whi really knows! Assuming everything goes to plan, she should have it the first week of June. She is planning to move soon after. What will happen? We shall see!
You sound great! I, personally, am proud of the way you have handled everything. I know this was a very difficult step for you, and you handled it well, with dignity, grace, and honor. (((Jeff))) you are a classy dude!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Just checking in. Sounds like you're doing good considering.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
Nothing much is happening here. W has been packing some most days that she doesn't work. She got almost all of her stuff out of "our" closet yesterday. I thought it might hurt, but, really, nothing.
Oh, S11 and I had a great time Sunday afternoon. We went for a loat lunch at a Mongolian BBQ place that he loves (his choice) then we went to the fair. We did a spin through the rides, spending a quick $20 for five rides total (they make Disney look like a good deal!) and then watched "Roger Clyne and the Peacemakers" perform. They are an Arizona band, but they seem to have fans all over the country. They have a good time, and are a lot of fun to listen to. Afterwards we hit Pizza Hut on the way home. S11 said he had a great time!
