Thanks, Fallgirl. You had some excellent insights. I too am wondering about the combination of Love Dare with LRT. It's just that I'm trying to show him I care and love him (bringing him AM coffee, making a dinner I know he likes), but I'm not pursuing him in that I don't call or text often, and am avoiding questions regarding relationships and the future (although I screwed up last night). It kills me to not ask him ?'s cuz he's so mysterious with his computer and cell protected passwords. It really is hell. I had a good day today with friends and family but then I come home to him. I can't fake the joy, I just can't do it. I can't fake being happy to see somoeone who just told me "I love you only as the mother of my children." WTF?


Me 39
H 42
M 11, T 12
S 10,6
D 3
EA 2007
separated in same home since 3/10/09