Thanks!

She just left. We got back from the movie and she asked if I would give her a call. So I did. She said oh, you're back already? I said yes, are you coming over? She said sure, I'll be over in a bit. Ok, D is swimming right now, we'll be outside. So, she came and was very nice, no R talk. She did ask me if I still liked her? I said, sure. I tried the cat thing you talked about, you know don't act interested but be polite when spoken too, etc. She seemed to want to talk to me more when I did that. Interesting, interesting, I did not pursue at all. At one point, I caught her checking out my bod. We hung out for a little over an hour and then she wanted to show me some videos on the computer. Not my D, me. They were funny and I laughed. She went into the bedroom to change and I got up and started getting busy cooking dinner(I remember, women like busy men). On the way out, I didn't get a hug or kiss. As a matter of fact I positioned myself in the kitchen so she didn't have the opportunity to move in for one. I did notice that she was a lot more respectful towards me maybe due to telephone conversation? I don't know. All I know is I felt better acting this way then pursuing. At least my heart isn't tore up after this visit. And if this doesn't work, I will be using this technique for the next Mrs. AF--just kidding.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!