Hey Simn! Ohh...I wasnt going to do that first! I was going to wait, make him wait, make it special. Also, I am forgiving and easy going, but I am a BIT sensitive he has been sh*gging someone else for 7/8 months!!! So the plan is to just spend time together, hugs, hope he talks to me and take it from there?

Ok.. so... I want to say, I feel bad for her, I do.. I know what she's got coming (she might not?), but then it also is for the best, this will free her up to be with someone who will love her, as he doesnt.

Anyway, K, you are right... he has been talking about this since January, so alot of his slowness has already been going on behind the scenes. Now he has talked to friends, told them, taken me out with 5 MF's down here and 5 MFs back home (including his brother both times) and I have seen MIL and SIL also and got the thumbs up there.. well, he has prepared the ground for reconciliation and perhaps NOW he will act.

Lastly, I want to post these, which I did for myself a while ago, before we head into this big Pluto week.

Wow, 43 threads. It won't be much longer...

Walked out after 9 years
Is this is?? 1
Is this it?? 2
MLC or just IDLYA?
Shows no regret, MLC
Now we're friends??
Friends is a start?
Four months on
Depression confirmed!
Will he reconnect?
Probably over?
Freaky friendship now
Backing off again?
Now I have NFC!
6 months on
Stuck in Stage 2!
A flicker of life?
Are we dating now?
Still stuck Stage 2
Wants to be on his own
Still depressed.. me too
Depressed and angry now
No expectations
Yep, still depressed
Looks the end is nigh
He gone back to NC?
Not sure what's happened
A year since we separated
Wondering when NC ends / EA/PA?
He's been kidnapped!!
This is the week that was / Pluto and the MLC
A year ago nearly
Out of NC again!
Writing a novel!
A year ago today
Change is on its way
Now what?
He's 'confused' now
Eclipses coming up!
Says he just had an MLC!
Wants to finish with ow
A Tale of Two Ex's
Over with ow yet or not?