Hey Simn! Ohh...I wasnt going to do that first! I was going to wait, make him wait, make it special. Also, I am forgiving and easy going, but I am a BIT sensitive he has been sh*gging someone else for 7/8 months!!! So the plan is to just spend time together, hugs, hope he talks to me and take it from there?
Ok.. so... I want to say, I feel bad for her, I do.. I know what she's got coming (she might not?), but then it also is for the best, this will free her up to be with someone who will love her, as he doesnt.
Anyway, K, you are right... he has been talking about this since January, so alot of his slowness has already been going on behind the scenes. Now he has talked to friends, told them, taken me out with 5 MF's down here and 5 MFs back home (including his brother both times) and I have seen MIL and SIL also and got the thumbs up there.. well, he has prepared the ground for reconciliation and perhaps NOW he will act.
Lastly, I want to post these, which I did for myself a while ago, before we head into this big Pluto week.