Hi there K...I'm afraid I struggle with offering much - one thing I have noticed about myself is that I have a problem offering anything of any worth to women on this board-and that is not because I don't appreciate the the details of their situation or their pain...its simply because I can't "think" myself into the subtlety of the feelings involved and rather than pitch in I've always found myself holding back for fear of running in like a bull in a china shop...

So - long way of saying - I do keep visiting your corner of the DB Board and my love and support to you...

Simon x