I am new here, and just read this thread from the beginning. I really commend you, for everything you are doing. My H moved out two days ago, therefore I really can't offer any advice, as I am beginning this struggle myself. But I think you are doing the right thing. Hang in there.
Me: 48 H: 47 M: 16 years Separated: 4/24/09 3 cats, no kids My Story