WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 8

[confusedinpa]

An odd thing is that my 3 year old starts baseball on Weds (my day). She called to see if I needed her to pick him up. I told her no as I would need to do dinner with the boys first. She said she was planning on going and suggested that the 4 of us could have a "picnic" dinner like we used to do with soccer last year

I told her that sounded ok but would firm things up on Weds.

Not sure if I should have said no. Its hard to be Dark/Dim when she calls/text/emails everyday. I don't answer all the text/emails but do for the calls as I don't want to "punish" the kids by not answering if they want to talk to me

Any thoughts?