if this R is not bringing anything but grief then you have to ask yourself why do you still communication with such a toxic person hon, take care of yourself)))))) some people have some sort of void/unhappiness that they fill it with making others as miserable or try to shift the blame elsewhere.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.