Hi PN!
Have just read through a couple of your posts. Your H sounds so like mine-in MLC and passive aggressive with a family who like to gloss over things and make things look good. Hopeless at knowing what he feels and hating to make decisions.

Oh and the whole marriage falling apart and I`m to blame...

I`m delighted that you`re seeing some progress! It gives me hope too!

Keep us posted!