Dear Snodderly, Jensen, peace - Thank you so much for your input and advice. He's not home yet, but he did call - I remained civil. As you all know this MLC stuff is so hard and mostly UNFAIR! Who is this strange alien who has taken over my normally responsible loving husband? As much as I want to confront him, a voice in the back of my head was saying, better to just leave it alone. When he called and asked what I've been doing he seemed surprised when I told him. It was a long list comprising various garden and household projects, some stuff which I would normally never tackle by myself. (replacing and staining a board on our deck - normally his domain). He seemed very surprised, I think he thinks I just sit around on my butt the whole time he's gone. He asked if I had anything to drink? This was at about 10AM. Sure we have wine in the house, but I drink maybe two glasses a month. Alcohol has become part of his escape and a coping mechanism. I thought it a very strange question - does he think I get drunk when he leaves? I'm never drinking when he gets home, I don't know why he would ask this.
Anyway, again thank you all for your support. This website helps keep me strong.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
