Thank you davidswife. I am going to use your line and then explain to her I am now setting a boundary (as stated above). i am also going to expand on the fact she decides on the house fittings etc, therefore as I am no longer a part of the decision process I am no longer assisting with 'household' tasks.

What do you think?


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years