DL, you are very lucky and blessed to have such classy ILs and extended family like that. They sounds like they are very supportive of you and the kids. I know how important having supportive ILs is!
It also sounds like your kids get along great with their grandparents also. Those are important relationships, too. Don't let what is happening in your world do anything to dampen the normal, happy relationships that the kids have with their GPs.
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09