Accelerated divorce due to OM...normal?

[sweet-1]

We went to the zoo yesterday, spent the day there. We chatted about things in general (Not R), she was receptive but still a bit reserved. We both took lots of pics, some of mine were fo her with the kids, and at one point we were walking I flashed a quick shot of her face, she smiled. Later she caught me looking at her butt (I am still a guy ya know!) and giggled, didn't seem genuinely upset. One thing I noticed is she very rarely made eye contact again, and when she did it lasted a fraction of a second then looked down. She spent alot of time texting, but wasn't hiding it like usual. She also purposely avoided taking a picture if i was anywhere near the frame.

After we went for supper at Dairy Queen (son's choice). She talked a bit about her childhood, and how many times her and her mother moved around after her parent's divorce (8 houses in 4 yrs). I was surprised because I thought she lived with her father at this time. She says she told me and she may have but I don't think I'd forget a detail as major as this.

She is so beautiful and just being near her makes my heart speed up, I want to hug and kiss her, but can't try yet. The kids still haven't met OM, he didn't come. Nor did any of her "new" friends from this second life of hers. She slipped and says she's still talking to her family depsite saying she hadn't talked to them in weeks recently. I let it slide, not worth the hassle. She's taking the kids out quadding today, something that we enjoyed immensely as a family. I wish I could be there.