Yes you are so right Snodderly. Thank you! I started in my closet last night and was finishing this am, when our wedding album came tumbling down into my lap. I started to cry. I didn't open it though, since I knew there would be a flood of tears.

My wedding dress was also amongst the closet items. I just set them aside for now. Not sure what to do with those photos and dress. I also found a photo of my mom. I miss her so much. She has been gone for 33 years, but I really never got to know her. She died young and I was a teen.

I want to go home, but I don't know where home is. I feel so lost and alone right now.

I did put a big bag of clothes together for charity. It is feeling good to purge. I have asked for S20 to help me set-up selling on e-bay and craigs list and should be ready for a garage sale within about 45 days. I have lots of decluttering to do though, so this is a big project.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"