I think it is a bit of both. I don't need it and won't put up with it from her anymore. Now it bothers me that she wants to know every move with flirt guy. Like I said she knows him too but didn't keep in touch any better than I had. Funny like that when you are married.
I know right now I am not in the best state of mind or body to be figuring this all out but it is staring me in the face. Needs to be done.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory