sorry you find yourself here Snodderly always has the best advice protect your money you will not see it at first,,they hide all they spend Mine had seperate credit cards that I never knew he had sounds lkike your H is responding to your efforts and that is good but if its MLC they really do go thru a process that cant be stopped some worse than others peace
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