WAW1

[markhaving probs]

Puppy,

I hope you gained strength from your experince, I sort of did but I did shed a tear once I left the church.

Puppy please could me on this. I went to the house on Friday to pick up my children. My best mans xwife popped in while I was there who I had not seen for a few years. We hugged (which was great because I have not hugged a woman for so long), and she asked me how I was doing. As my wife was also in the kitchen I said "great", I kept upbeat, told her how I was trying to improve my job prospects which includes posting my computer services I can provide into houses. My wife heard this and said "I told him to do this 10 years ago". She also said to my friend "he's never liked what he does for a living". My wife never uttered my name on either occasion, but I ignored her negative statements and thought this was the time to leave. I then said to our friend we must go out for a drink sometime which she excepted.

Originally, I was to give the children dinner and then take them back, but I decided to go one better and offer to have them for the night which I did. We did some nice things and I took them back the following morning, my wife had obviuosly been out the night before as her car was parked somewhere else on Saturday (I must stop wondering what she is doing).

I had to go to our bedroom to pick some things up and I noticed she has thrown away our wedding place settings with our names on it and our wedding cushion which had our names on it, date etc was put in a drawer. I felt shattered and numb but I did not say anything as I was so shocked. I kissed the children goodbye, my S7 came to the door and sounded sad when he said goodbye (that hurt), and I said goodbye to my wife and said I would see them Wednesday.

It appears my wife is now preparing herself for her single life by removing all memories of our past - no photographs, no wedding presents, memories, NOTHING. Is this normal for a WAW and is she now drawing a line regarding our life together? Please respond.