Still here... (#61)

[AliSuddenly]

I didnt know what to say either.. but that yes, he seems very stressed, overworked, tired and angry and is clearly taking it out on you, not that you are the problem (how can you be, you hardly see him?). I think your H is in bad shape, mentally or emotionally, or maybe both, who knows!

But.. perhaps you are just sick of him being mean and taking his stress or anger out on you, not only now, but before and during your M. I still say you should ask him if he is ok, is he happy and does he really mean the horrible things he says? Ask him another time, somewhere away from the house and car in a neutral place and when you are both calm, not during an argument.

Thinking of you xxx