Oops, sorry, I just posted under the wrong topic!Sorry K! Learning to detach myself though as you`ll read in my post. Not quite where you`re at though my H seems to be caught in the fantasy world of an MLCer too.

I agree about your not pursung-go back to Michelles books about this. Its very important for your H to see you having fun without him, getting on with your life.

I see this time as my journey for me. I can have my MLC too!

Sorry for jumping in on your topic-I`m off to paste my offending post in MLC forum where it belongs!