futureunknown, Thanks very much for the compliment. I honestly don't know what else to do other than taking the high road. I am very sorry to hear that you are in a similar sitch.
MIL called yesterday and said that she asked wife about if the OM was still gone. Wife told her Mom that she wasn't going to talk about OM to her or me anymore--so, I have to assume the worst and believe that she is back in contact w/ OM.
If you wanted to give some guilt I'm sure you could find a way. Good luck w/ your sitch and thanks for your input.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!