It's never too late. I think all of us who have posted here thought that it was too late. That we could never save our M.
But we still try and persevere and some even get back together after they've been D.
So never say never.
I second BND. Read and re-read DB and DR.
And most importantly go out and live. Get your mind off this as best you can. Only then can you be true to yourself and not react to every little thing your H does.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.