WAW New life with OM #2

[ppenton]

You truly are handling situation so well. I'm glad my messages help, but I think you have a lot of strength, character, and are very level-headed so you will be fine no matter what. You are being a great dad, a super good role model, getting out and being a little social, attending support groups, and connecting with family. I think you are doing great things for yourself and you have a great attitude.

You know I'm joking about bringing the women to the game, but I will say sometimes when a W or H realizes their S is attractive, or interesting, to others... or just sees them having a great time with others (and this doesn't mean dating or having a relationship beyond friendship!), it can cause them to think about things a little differently.

However, I still would LOVE for your W to see you somewhere with a slew of beautiful women. Just the expression on her face.

Thanks for the recipe - I'll try it out as soon as I can.

Friday night's session went well and everyone loved my cookies and brownies (got lots of complements and hugs). Afterwards we (5 women and myself) went out for coffee, talking and laughing, and having a good time till past mid-night. I would love to see W's reaction to see me with my new "friends".

This afternoon S15's team won both games (11-1 & 3-2) and he played well in the first game. W came late with her new puppy (no OM) and left early.

Thanks for the encouragement and I do know I'm level-headed but its nice to hear that as a positive. My W thought I was too level headed....not sure what that means. I still have my ups and downs but think I'm doing ok as my kids seem to be handling this situation fine so far. I still miss W very much and get angry that she did this. I do pray everyday for God to remove the anger from my heart so I can forgive her and love her unconditionally. I am realizing that I will be fine no matter what happens (if she wants to try and work out a new M or wants a D). My family, friends and IC keep telling me how great of a job I'm doing and that is a great boost to hear any day.

My dad and I took the kids and couple of their friends to the White Sox game tonight and they won 10-2

Well, better get to bed as I have the March of Dimes walk in the morning and I hope it does not rain too much....Thanks again {{{runningoutoftime}}}