I'm not going to call her back and say anything. And if I say anything about her friend, she is likely to get defensive and then what good would that do me.
I help out around the house because I feel obligated to and I want to make W happy. I try to do whatever I can that might help our situation and not hurt it. She doesn't want me here at all but allows it now and then so I do what I can so she doesn't resent me being here and I also am trying to show her I am responsible. I do clean up my messes. This weekend she had to wash everything because of the lice so I have been doing that and putting stuff away. I also do the dishes for her. I notice they never get done except when I am here. So I do them.
She generally has little things here and there she wants done. I do it without complaining as I am happy to be in the house any chance I get.
And since my kids are involved, I need to do whatever I can for their sake.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...