he is back, i think

[bluerain]

I haven't ever spoken to the OW in my sitch. I sent her a few nasty texts, but thats it.

I think that its really smart to not ask questions you may not like the answers to. That was one that I had a tough time with. I wanted to know everything I could, and it destroyed my peace of mind very quickly!

I wouldnt be surprised at all if she did try to say something inflammatory to you.