The adventure continues- part 4

[AFWAW]

I think the only thing that was geared toward my sitch is that my wife cannot seem to make up her mind and instead of me chasing her, I need her to chase me. If I read it correctly.

Yep. You read correctly regarding the chasing part except for the "only thing that was geared toward my sitch" part. There was more food for thought in there that was geared toward you than the chasing part. (she was showing signs of chasing you though, but you made some tactical errors that backed her off)

Good start for you though.

She has backed way off for now it seems. She called last night and asked to speak to daughter right away, no chit-chat, no nothing. Daughter was talking on her cell phone-so I got from wife, tell her I love her and if she wants to call then she can. Told me D and her response was "I DON'T CARE"! Oh, no, now that hurt to hear. I feel really bad for her--my D that is.

This morning the wife called again. Again she asked for D with no chit-chat. So, I guess I have backed her off royally for the time being.

I will remain strong for now and resist the temptation to call. I will apply no pressure as gucciloafer advised. NONE. It will be up to her to re-establish communications. We'll see if this works.