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[AliSuddenly]

Hey T...Nice to see you back! Wow, taht is quite an update! I enjoyed reading it all.

Two things struck me.. one, that essentially your emails/phone calls/texts/meetings are more of the same.. nice, good, positive interactions, but nothing to go on, no chink or clue that as Jeff says, he wants anymore. I agree with you, that its a shame he 'squeezes' you in for an hour and not an evening, but then he sounds like a busy man, so maybe thats good that he does do that at least. But you have done an excellent job of not only maintaining contact, but gradually building on the smallest original interactions to build a genuine friendship. And its great he is still rooming with guys.

Second, the email was the most significant thing. Wow, he really really respects and rates you.. as a musician and as a person. Thats what I got from that, he really holds yuo in high esteem. Whether he still loves you, or fancies you, or regrets leaving, or views you as a potential future gf, I just cant tell. As yuo dont mention anyting about longing looks, or flirting etc, I take it you arent really picking up any vibe and you cant tell either?

Do you not have any way of finding out if he is single, or how he is doing? No mutual friends you could find out through?

Its great that he is so much in touch with you, shows huge interest in your future plans, your music, your family etc. All really really nice. Where you go from here.. I dont know !?

Is it hard saying goodbye to him each time? Personally it kills me to say goodbye to my ex.

Al xxx