BND,

You are absolutely right! I've had my focus our daughter and always thought BOTH of us should make her the first priority.

I guess I may have been boring to him, because he was certainly boring to me! To most, I was considered the "fun one" I'm the relationship. He's never been the initiator of things...

Well, I think I seriously need to do some 180s. I feel like my having served him the Legal Sep papers was like my LRT...at least in H's mind, they are divorce papers... I think I need to go read more on LRT... I could reiterate and reinforce the idea that it was only for financial protection... What do you think?

T

M51, H49, D21
M 23yrs, T 28yrs
3/07 - OW Bomb
6/07 - move to MIL's; OW relocate
10/07 - OW2 Bomb
5/08 - secretly move to OW2's
end/08 - secretly get beach apt w/OW2
2/09 I petition Legal Sep, not served yet