So she like never shows any admiration towards you or compliments either? How does she act when you do give her compliments? Does it change her demeanor at all? Her behavior just baffles me.
What realities do you think she was able to see yesterday? If she is dating can't you at least use that to protect yourself from alimony? How can she even ask for that when she is potentially dating? Doesn't she feel guilty at all for what she has done? Doesn't adultery at the very least bar alimony in your state?