I think the only thing that was geared toward my sitch is that my wife cannot seem to make up her mind and instead of me chasing her, I need her to chase me. If I read it correctly.
Yep. You read correctly regarding the chasing part except for the "only thing that was geared toward my sitch" part. There was more food for thought in there that was geared toward you than the chasing part. (she was showing signs of chasing you though, but you made some tactical errors that backed her off)
