Holding onto Hope

[In Limbo]

Sandi,

I only have a few minutes and will respond to your full post later when I can give it the time it deserves. Thank you for replying. It's helpful to read others' sitches, but it is really good to get a reply to your own. I appreciate everything you wrote and agree with what you're saying, especially the part about my fear and feeling powerless. BTW, the "cuddling" was with my boys, part of my list of things to do to have fun with them. I've been successful the past few days in being engaged with them and we've had a lot of fun. I've benefitted as much as they have.

I have a quick question about MLC based on what you've learned. Does a personal crisis ever "shock" someone in MLC into realizing what they've fallen into and help them move out of MLC? Something happened Thursday night that I'll explain later, but it's caused H's eyes to open to what a fool he's been and also given me a perfect opportunity to 180 and he noticed. I'm cautiously optomistic at this point and continuing to try more focus on me and less on H, but I'm wondering if this might be a turning point for H. Sorry I have to go, but I'll get back on later and explain. Can you check back in on me the next time you're online? I'd appreciate being able to continue our posting and to get your advice on my sitch and the changes in the past two days.