but all of my relationships including my first marriage were marred with the same crap going on here... Looking back, I can see where I felt the same and made the same mistakes in those relationships. The difference is that now, I am committed and trying to do something about them... but it's about as difficult as ever and I'm a hard-headed sort...
So, all of your R's have been essentially the same, and you dont want that to continue.. so DBing is DEFINITELY what you need! You need to learn more about how to take care of you, be who you need to be, and how to build healthy long lasting relationships! Bravo to you for recognising the bad pattern in your history, and for being enough of a man to realise you can do better!
Dont walk out of newcomers too quickly - you may think you are in a different place and forget what you are working on and towards!
Have you made any goals yet? My old DB friends took me to task on this several times, and it was one of the things that absolutely saved me and my M, so I would like to try to do the same for you. Please post your goal list - at least 3 items!
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