My h had an EA which turned into a one time PA (Sep 06). He confessed the PA (Nov 06) but lied about who it was with. He said it was someone I didn't know. On 12 Feb 07, he revealed that it was actually a fairly good friend of ours who would babysit our daughter regularly and whom I had confided in. That was bomb #1 and #2. We separated between Bomb #1 and Bomb #2 (29 Jan 07). You can understand I'm sure why I was extremely upset and mistrustful and angry with him about that.
Heaps more drama in the 12-15 months after that but I don't want to go into it now. Stirs up bad memories.
** Purple
As soon as you trust yourself you will know how to live. Goethe
